Question 1

What does Fly Me To You mean?

Accepted Answer

Fly Me To You, often shortened to FMTY, is a listing attribute indicating a provider is willing to travel to another city or country rather than only working from their own location. It is a filter over the directory: providers set it themselves, and those who do usually note which destinations they consider, how much notice they need, and their terms for travel and accommodation. What is actually agreed is between you and the provider.

Question 2

How do I find providers who travel?

Accepted Answer

Filter for travel availability, then read the individual listings. Providers who travel typically publish the regions or countries they will consider, minimum booking lengths, notice periods, and how travel and accommodation costs are handled. Some also publish their own deposit, cancellation and rescheduling terms. Those terms are the provider's own — UrLittleSecret does not take bookings, hold deposits, or act as an intermediary in any arrangement.

Question 3

Does UrLittleSecret handle travel arrangements or payments?

Accepted Answer

No. We are an advertising platform. We do not arrange travel, take bookings, hold funds, process payments between users, or mediate disputes. Any payment we take is for advertising services on the site, from providers, and is unrelated to anything agreed between a provider and someone who contacts them. Arrangements, terms, and any money that changes hands are entirely between those users.

Question 4

What does the verified badge mean?

Accepted Answer

A verified badge means the provider has completed identity verification with us: a government-issued photo ID and a selfie, checked by our team. It confirms that the person is who they say they are and that they are over 18. It is not an endorsement, and it says nothing about the services described in their listing. Providers who have not completed verification do not carry the badge, and you can filter to show verified profiles only.

Question 5

How do I contact a provider?

Accepted Answer

Each travel companion listing shows the contact methods that provider accepts — typically a phone number, email, or their own website and social links. Contact goes directly to them. UrLittleSecret is an advertising platform: we do not make introductions, arrange or manage meetings, take bookings, or pass messages between users. Anything agreed is between you and the provider.

Question 6

How do I report a listing?

Accepted Answer

Listings carry a report option. You can flag impersonation, offensive content, scams, non-consensual imagery, or a safety concern — including a concern that someone may be underage or may not be acting freely. Reports can be submitted without an account and without giving your name. We review them, and reports raising a risk to a person are prioritised and escalated to the relevant authorities where appropriate. Our safety page sets out what happens after a report and lists independent help lines.

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