Question 1

What does the fetish category cover?

Accepted Answer

It groups adverts from providers who say they welcome specific interests and kinks. Each provider sets out in their own words what they do and do not offer, their experience, and any limits they hold. The category exists so people can find providers whose stated interests match what they are looking for, rather than working through the whole directory.

Question 2

How do I find providers who list a particular interest?

Accepted Answer

Filter by category and location to narrow the directory, then read the listings themselves. Providers generally list their specialisms, whether they work with people new to the area, session formats and lengths, and activities they will not undertake. These details are written by each provider and are not standardised by us, so the listing is the place to check.

Question 3

What does the verified badge mean?

Accepted Answer

A verified badge means the provider has completed identity verification with us: a government-issued photo ID and a selfie, checked by our team. It confirms that the person is who they say they are and that they are over 18. It is not an endorsement, and it says nothing about the services described in their listing. Providers who have not completed verification do not carry the badge, and you can filter to show verified profiles only.

Question 4

How do I contact a provider?

Accepted Answer

Each fetish listing shows the contact methods that provider accepts — typically a phone number, email, or their own website and social links. Contact goes directly to them. UrLittleSecret is an advertising platform: we do not make introductions, arrange or manage meetings, take bookings, or pass messages between users. Anything agreed is between you and the provider.

Question 5

How do I report a listing?

Accepted Answer

Listings carry a report option. You can flag impersonation, offensive content, scams, non-consensual imagery, or a safety concern — including a concern that someone may be underage or may not be acting freely. Reports can be submitted without an account and without giving your name. We review them, and reports raising a risk to a person are prioritised and escalated to the relevant authorities where appropriate. Our safety page sets out what happens after a report and lists independent help lines.

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