Safety and Reporting

UrLittleSecret is an advertising directory. We publish advertisements placed by independent adults. We do not arrange, broker, supervise, or take any part in meetings, and we are not a party to anything users agree between themselves.

That does not make what happens here none of our business. This page sets out what we prohibit, how to tell us when something is wrong, and where to get help — from us or from someone else — if you need it.

What is absolutely prohibited

There is no version of these we tolerate, no warning, and no second listing:

  • Anyone under 18, in any capacity — appearing in a listing, advertising, or being referred to in one.
  • Human trafficking and coercion.Advertising another person's services, controlling someone else's listing or earnings, holding someone's identity documents, or advertising anyone who is not acting of their own free will.
  • Intimate images shared without consent, including images of someone who did not agree to them being published here.
  • Age-coded language — wording chosen to suggest someone is younger than 18, whatever their actual age.
  • Anything unlawful where the advertiser lives or works.

Where we find any of the above we remove the content, close the account, preserve the evidence, and report it to the appropriate authority.

Reporting something to us

Every profile has a Report control. You can also email [email protected].

You do not need an account and you do not have to give your name. The person best placed to notice that someone is being controlled is often not a member of this site and often cannot safely identify themselves. Anonymous reports are read and acted on exactly like any other.

It helps us if you can include:

  • A link to the listing, or the username
  • What you noticed, in your own words
  • When you noticed it

If you are not sure whether something is worth reporting, report it. Deciding is our job, not yours.

What happens after you report

Reports of a suspected minor, suspected coercion, or non-consensual imagery are escalated immediately to a person, ahead of the queue. Other reports are reviewed in turn.

We may remove or hide a listing while we look at it. There is one deliberate exception: we do not automatically hide a listing reported for coercion. If someone is being controlled, taking their advertisement down removes their income, can escalate the danger to them, and destroys evidence before anyone has looked at it. Those reports go straight to a person with the listing intact. This is a considered decision, not an oversight.

We do not share a reporter's identity with the person reported.

What we check, and what we do not

We would rather be exact about this than reassuring. As things stand today:

  • Age and identity. Everyone who advertises here submits a government photo ID and a selfie, which our team checks against each other before the listing can go live. A verified badge means that check was completed. It confirms identity and age at the time of the check. It is not an endorsement, and it says nothing about the services described in the listing.
  • Images are reviewed by our team before publication.
  • Listing text is filtered against a prohibited terms list, and is reviewed by a person when it is reported or flagged.
  • We do not verify service descriptions, rates, availability, or reviews. Those are written by advertisers and by other users. We do not check them and we do not stand behind them.

If someone is controlling your work

If another person is directing your work, keeping your earnings, holding your documents, or you cannot leave — you are not in trouble with us. Contact any of the services below. They are independent of us, confidential, and free.

If someone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.

Reporting child sexual abuse material

Report it directly to the organisations below, which are set up to receive it. Please also tell us at [email protected] so we can remove it and preserve the record — but do not wait for us, and do not send the material itself to us by email.

Intimate images published without your consent

Email [email protected] with a link to the image and we will remove it. You do not need to prove ownership first, and we will not ask you to send the image to us.

  • StopNCII — creates a digital fingerprint of an image on your own device so participating platforms can block it, without the image ever leaving your phone — stopncii.org
  • United Kingdom — Revenge Porn Helpline: 0345 6000 459 — revengepornhelpline.org.uk

Copyright and other legal notices

Copyright complaints, DMCA notices, and other legal correspondence are handled on our legal page. Our full terms are at /terms.